Mastering your mind with NLP

Our brains are incredibly adaptable and capable of greater transformation and growth than we give them credit for. If you have come to accept a particular behaviour or thought that negatively impacts your life, there is a way to overcome this. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) embodies the belief that we can nurture our minds to flourish. It acknowledges that our past experiences may have planted negative thoughts or behaviours, but it also empowers us to weed them out or cultivate healthier alternatives.

In essence, NLP can focus on how you see the world and how you can deliberately change your thoughts and behaviours to achieve the desired outcomes.

Amid our busy lives, our brains have evolved to streamline decision-making through shortcuts; however, these shortcuts can also reinforce negative experiences when we resort to our defaulted reaction.

NLP offers a path to change by delving into our perceptions, communication, and thought patterns, equipping us with the tools to replace limiting or negative mental and linguistic patterns with positive and productive ones.

I work with clients to achieve this transformation through a variety of techniques. For instance, anchoring allows us to associate a specific stimulus with a desired emotional state, empowering us to trigger confidence or calmness when needed. This technique encourages associating a specific stimulus with a particular emotional state, for example, touching a specific body part (like your thumb) when feeling confident). Over time, touching your thumb can be used as an anchor to trigger confidence in different situations. 

Reframing is another technique I use to encourage us to view situations from different angles, replacing negative narratives with positive ones. For example, instead of consistently saying, ‘I’m always nervous when I speak in public,’ we can adopt a new perspective, such as, ‘my body is naturally preparing me to deliver my best performance; this nervous energy is its way of getting me ready.’

I also use The Swish Pattern – which is used to replace undesirable habits (or responses) with more desirable ones. This involves vividly imagining the unwanted behaviour and then quickly replacing it with a preferred, positive image. Let’s say someone’s go-to when stressed is a cigarette – I’d encourage them to imagine reaching for that cigarette in a stressful situation. Then, they quickly replace that image with a vivid mental picture of themselves handling the stress calmly and confidently without smoking (their desired response). 

NLP is about unlocking the potential for personal growth and encouraging women to adapt and change our thoughts, behaviours, and responses. Like hypnosis, you are always in control of changing your behaviour, as change cannot occur without your desire to make significant changes.

I started Woman’s Wellbeing in Norwich to treat the whole woman, and NLP is a way of beginning that journey. Whether transitioning from unresourceful states to resourceful ones or breaking free from unproductive habits, NLP empowers us to thrive.


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